Friday, September 2, 2011

Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder

"The greatest beauty on earth is found in the hearts of those who love."  -Source Unknown

This quote sums up one of my largest beliefs about love.  It could be the fact that I am a hopeless romantic, but I believe that all love is beautiful when it is true.  Love is breathtaking whether it is one man and one woman or two men or two women.  Love shouldn’t be limited to two people either.  In this life, we can only live once (unless you are a believer of re-incarnation, of course).  Why should we limit ourselves in love and life – if it is what we so choose?  Why would a person even consider turning their back on a love with more than one person?  Or a love that involves domination and submission? Why would someone even consider giving up such a precious gift just because it is not conventional?  No matter who the love is between or how it transpires, it is extraordinary.  It’s beautiful.  It’s life-altering.

Earlier, I was taking some time to look at various photographs online.  I do this often to gain inspiration – not necessarily the faces or bodies.  I want to see the love, the emotion, the devotion between the people.  For me, looking at these photos is like listening to a love song.  The emotion captivates me, and I feel compelled to write about it.  I cannot tell you how many times that I have been inspired by a song or a photo and even movies (on occasion).  You will rarely see me writing without music blaring around me or headphones covering my ears, but that is another story for another day.  J

While I searched Google, I was struck by how difficult it was to find pictures of the more unconventional relationships, as well as, relationships that I do not view as unorthodox at all.  Yes, I found tons of pictures; however, most of them were trash.  I have no other words.  Now, do not misunderstand me.  I am a woman who loves porn.  And adult pictures.  And erotic romance novels, for goodness sake!  I have no delicate sensibilities, trust me.

These photos were just people who were fucking (please excuse my French).  No emotion.  No caring.  It was almost as if they were robots with dicks and holes.  Yet again, I want to state that I believe that you can fuck your brains out with someone you love.  Sex comes in many packages when you are in love.  It can be slow, sweet, and tender.  Or, it can be relaxing and leisurely.  Or, my personal fave, it can be wild monkey sex.  When, I refer to wild monkey sex, I mean bed-shaking, heart-racing, loud, raucous, hard, fast, dirty, gritty fucking.  The nastier, the better. J  Sex and love is about using your imagination (and lots of toys) to express the love that is deep inside your heart and soul.

I spent a ridiculous amount of time sifting through photos to find what I was looking for.  We are talking photos of everything under the moon, but they were about lust.  No love was involved.  The people were naked.  They were having sex.  Some of them looked as if they were enjoying it.  I can imagine that they were.  Sex feels good.  Really, really good. 

Now, I have no problem with looking at pictures or videos where there is no emotion when I am just looking for a pick-me-up.  I am speaking of the times that I know exactly what I am about to get.  However, I do struggle when a person can only find this horseshit.  It really disturbs me that so many people see this and truly believe that this lust-driven, emotionless screwing is what BDSM or Menages or Same Sex Relationships are about.  These people don’t get that love choose you and not the other way around.  No two people have to have the same desires and needs.  We would live boring lives if we did.

As most of you know, I have a deep-rooted fascination with ménages and BDSM.  I make no excuses for my fantasies.  I can promise you that if I found another person that I loved (and my husband was willing), I would seriously consider a permanent ménage.  To me, denying yourself the love inside of your heart is like cutting off a body part.  Yes, you can usually survive without your arm or leg (or whatever other appendage you might lose), but it is not the same.  You can even accept it and move on, but things will always be altered in a way that you cannot truly forget.  It will always be like something is missing.  Obviously, I have told you in previous posts that I would love to involve myself in the D/s world so I won’t waste your time on that because my posts are always too long as it is. 

Over the past few years, I have realized that I have spent so much time denying the things that are a part of me.  I suppressed the things that are deep inside of my heart.  Now, I have to live with the fact that I wasted so much time.  I wasted the chance to truly know myself and love myself unconditionally.  I believe that no person who has the opportunity to love or be loved should forsake it just because they were raised to believe it was wrong.  Or, they are worried what Uncle Joe will say.  Or, they’re afraid of ridicule and being outcasts in society by some close-minded person. 

The love of a person (or persons) is all that is really important in life.  If I had the option between my husband and a friend or acquaintance, there would be no hesitation.  I have been there, and I have done it before.  It is not fun, but sometimes you do what you have to do.  He is my everything, and I will be damned before someone will come between us.  I am not willing to give up something so real and so right for anyone.  I don’t give a shit if he was a man or a woman.  I don’t care if he came wielding a whip and a butt plug.  (Now, as I said before, we might have to work up to the whipping and stuff like that)  I don’t care if he would only be with me if I was involved with his brother or his best friend.  I would do it.  That may make me different or unconventional, but I do not really care.  I see the beauty and majesty of our love, and I cannot bear the thought of turning my back on it and walking away for some damned lonely, cynical, hypocritical asshole (or bitch, in some cases).

Well, I think we have reached the end of today’s post.  As per usual, it is ridiculously long.  LOL.  I am going to include some of the pictures that I found to be provocative yet enchanting.  I hope you enjoy.  Until we meet again…


"All love is sweet, given or returned."  - Percy Bysshe Shelley

***WARNING:  If you are offended by adult photographs that include same sex relationships, BDSM, and multiple partners, please stop at this point!***

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